Harmony. Clarity. Transformation.
Find it here. And live your best life.
Helping You Build Your Foundation for Peak Performance
Clarity
Our sessions will empower you with more self-awareness, emotional intelligence, self-acceptance, and a clearer understanding of your vision, purpose, and goals. Some of these questions may include:
Who is the realest you?
What are your strengths, and how can you use them to your advantage?
Where do you want to go, and how can you get there?
Harmony
You can only see the bottom of a pool when the waters are still and calm—just like you can only make significant progress when your mind is clear and at peace with itself and the outside world. Develop complete harmony with your thoughts, and learn to process and redirect feelings into positive channels of expression, regardless of external stimuli.
Growth
Where there is clarity and harmony, growth is not far behind. With a better understanding of yourself and your strengths, along with freedom from the internal conflict between your thoughts, feelings, and external influences, you can experience groundbreaking growth in all areas of life, and reach your peak potential.
Is this You? I’ve Been There Too, Let’s Talk.
I’m searching for the realest me
Wonderful! Explore and express your most authentic self—I’ll make the journey more enriching and rewarding.
I’m into “flow state”
You can more easily find and attain “flow state” in multiple areas of your life—I’ll show you how.
I have a growth mindset
Great! I’m here to help you activate and amplify your strengths, and get more out of your self-development journey.
I’m tired of the ‘real man’ ideal
As you should be. Let’s together break free from the rigid construct of cultural ideas and stereotypes about male identity, and redefine the meaning of a real man.
I feel stuck, confused, trapped
I know this feeling well. As an experienced, non-judgmental coach, I’ll help you sit and come to terms with, your emotions, thoughts, and feelings.
I want something else
Tell me more, and I’ll figure out what support you need, and how to get it to you.
Our mind is the engine that drives our experience, and determines our success. But often, this engine is troubled, clogged with confusion, constraining our potential. I get it. In the last 24 years, I’ve faced and overcome my share of grueling mental and physical challenges; and today, I’d like to apply this hard-earned knowledge to your benefit. I’m here to help you achieve harmony, growth, and contentment. Just like I did, but easier and faster (without having to battle 20 foot waves).
Who is Drew? Internal Family Systems trained, ICF-certified coach, former ocean lifeguard, cancer survivor
Why Drew? Highly motivated, fully accountable guide, who will give his all to help you live at your peak
Drew’s approach: Backed by science, focused on your strengths, and steering clear of a diagnostic, judgmental mindset
How I Coach
I Reframe
We often get caught in negative, mostly-outdated thought patterns, that are rooted in rigid belief systems. By taking advantage of the proven scientific concept of neuroplasticity, you can break out of this harmful cycle by essentially rewiring the neural pathways in your brain.
Neuroplasticity is an inherently biological process that anyone can leverage at any point in their lives.
What it’s not: An abstract theoretical methodology that sounds good on paper, but is hard to put into practice.
I Amplify
I apply the transformational methodology of Appreciative Inquiry (AI) which focuses on identifying your strengths, and maximizing them. Through a holistic strength assessment, we clearly identify your most powerful capabilities, and magnify them multifold, using the 5 core principles of AI.
AI helps us change the narrative from problem-centered to possibility-focused, empowering you with a clearer sense of self, more optimism, energy, and motivation.
What it’s not: An approach that picks apart your weaknesses and tries to fix them.
I Listen
Humans are complex beings. The experiences we have, and the situations we find ourselves in, are equally layered and intertwined. With this in mind, I view your journey through a holistic lens, which enables me to offer customized support that is in your personal best interest.
This non-diagnostic approach engenders an objective, broader view of any situation, leading to more meaningful breakthroughs.
What it’s not: A therapeutic approach that unravels past traumas, ‘diagnoses problems’, or prescribes a one-for-all solution.
I Empathize
There can be no fruitful outcome without deep understanding, and no understanding without empathy and compassion. When I’m with you, I will look at your journey and choices through your eyes, while steering clear from all assumptions, prejudice, and bias.
My primary goal is to offer a safe space where you can express yourself freely, without fear of judgment.
What it’s not: An interaction where you’re not heard, where you are quickly ‘slotted’ according to preconceived notions.
I Empower
Simply put, I’m here to empower you and make you self-reliant. As part of this, I take accountability seriously—beyond showing up and being fully present, I’ll make sure you stay committed to the growth map we’ve charted together.
Being a servant leader, I emphasize collaboration, co-creation and unconditional support—in me, you’ll find your most loyal champion.
What it’s not: A relationship of validation and dependence, or a guide who dictates what’s best for you, without considering your input.
Ready to Grow? Let’s Talk
Warm-up
Free 30-minute introduction session.
Learn how we will map out your self-transformation journey together
Deep-dive
60-minute session, via video or in person (if available locally)
Start discovering your unique strengths through my science-based approach.
All-in
Unlimited access to coaching and email interactions.
Get intensive, continual support and guidance to hit goals faster.
How Do We Work Together?
No amount of reviews, testimonials, or information will be able to achieve what a call will. In the end, if there isn’t a connection, or if I cannot help you with the current stage of your journey, I won’t take you on as a client. I am in the incredibly fortunate position of being able to be very selective of who I work with, and because of this I show up in a big way for you. I’m asking a lot of you because I know that’s what it takes to do deep growth work.
It may take a few calls for us to determine if working together is mutually agreeable, and those sessions will never cost money. I can guarantee that regardless of whether or not you choose to work with me, you will walk away with a value for your life. And if we do choose to work together, you’ll have already seen what is possible, and trust me, you’ll be excited about what you are seeing.
Most of my clients work with me for at least 6 months on a monthly contract. I offer private coaching, group, and individual sessions.
What People Are Saying
It’s a hard time to be a man. We are choked by rigid gender roles, dragged down by the weight of impossible expectations, even as we struggle against the tide of ridiculously high standards. In times of trial, instead of genuine support and open conversations, we’re constantly reminded of what a ‘real man’ would do (man up, tough it out), and what they would not (show your emotions, discuss your feelings). The result? That dreaded sense of ‘not good enough.’ Of being left adrift, on your own, even when you’re surrounded by a sea of people.
If this describes you, know that you’re not alone.
I’ve been in the deep end myself, many times.
When I was younger, I went through two transformative mental and physical battles: I fought and overcame terminal cancer, and I trained for and served as a professional ocean lifeguard. During those 10 years as an elite lifeguard, I had to be in the best mental and physical shape possible, because even a minor slip could mean a life lost.
Navigating these turbulent waters, both literally and figuratively, gave me the opportunity to come to terms with my emotions, my feelings, and myself. My hunger and curiosity led me to learn more about mental and emotional development, including scientific methodologies like Appreciative Inquiry, and biological processes like Neuroplasticity. Decades of putting theory into practice, bolstered by my lived experience, now enables and empowers my most authentic self, reaching peak performance, no matter which path I choose.
Today, I’m an ICF-certified and Internal Family Systems informed coach, with an M.A. in Organizational Behavior and Leadership, and 24 years of experience. I’m eager to share with you the insights and lessons that have guided me, time and again, to the shores of truth, growth, and contentment.
I know what it’s like to find clarity in chaos, and find the gift on the other side.
I know how tough the going can get, but I also know that you can find hope and light in the darkest of times, just like I did. And that’s why I’m here: To be your constant guide and champion.
Gently, yet purposefully, steering you toward harmony, clarity, and peak performance.
